Yes, the callback hell complain is something that happen everytime you try do write some code more complex than helloworld in Node JS.
But some solution are here from long time, that is promise and reactive extension.
TJ Holowaychuk wrote most of express package, that is the most used node web server, and it is based on node original idioma of callback, error, and next() call ...back.
I use express, it is a great work, but is not up-to-date with promise idioma, and sometime I am not very confortable with it.
I already did the first step, https://github.com/kriskowal/q
and callback hell disappeared
I heard a lot of people beeing entusiast for reactive extension:
github.com/Reactive-Extensions/RxJS
it is a microsoft contribution.
Also developers which are leaving are leaving express related packages, thus webserver, not node js framework ... As stated in the title it seems that nodejs is near to close down